Don’t Mess with Texas!

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In November, I flew to Dallas/Ft. Worth to visit my parents. They are living in Texas temporarily for my Dad’s job, and it was really nice to see them. This wasn’t my first visit to the area. I went to Ft. Worth last year with my husband, brother and sister-in-law for a visit and was overall impressed with the Ft. Worth area. My parents live in a nice apartment and there are a lot of things to do there.  This time, my husband and I went just us two and we really had an eventful long weekend with my Mom and Dad.

The first thing we did when we arrived was to go to the Gas Monkey Garage. You might be familiar with the show Fast and Loud about car restorations. They are located in Dallas, and although we couldn’t see anything because they were filming, it was still cool to be there. We visited the gift shop (which was quite expensive, in my opinion) and my husband bought some merchandise. Then, we headed over to the Gas Monkey Bar and Grill for lunch. Yes, they have a restaurant too.  It’s only about a five minute drive from the garage itself and the food was really good. We decided to spend the whole day in Dallas since we were already there and then went on to our next activity.

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If you ever get the chance to go to the George W. Bush Presidential Library, you should. We went there next and it was very interesting.  When we arrived, we bought tickets and walked into the exhibit. As we were handing in our tickets, we saw Laura Bush herself, and she said hi to us! At first, I didn’t really realize it was her and then my parents told me. I think it’s great that she comes there regularly. I know former President George W. Bush was just there a few days before that for Veteran’s Day. The library was very cool and modern. It talked about everything from his life growing up in Texas, to his campaign, to his presidency, etc. There were a lot of short videos, and plenty of things to read on the walls and tables. They have a tribute to 9/11 and it was very moving. It actually made me cry and think back on that dreadful day in history. I composed myself and moved on to the next display. As part of the library, they have an exact replica of the oval office and it looked just as it did when Bush was in office. You could even sit at the desk and have your picture taken if you wanted. It was cool to see their outfits to state dinners and the gifts the Bush family was given during his term. Every gift a US president is given belongs to the American people. So, many of the gifts were on display in the library and outside in the lobby. I will have to visit more Presidential libraries in the future. Since this was the newest one, it must be the most modern and the nicest. What a great way to spend an afternoon in Dallas.

After the library, we met up with my cousin who I have not seen for 9 years! My parents have seen him quite often since they moved to Texas, but it had been a very long time since I had seen him. We went out for Mexican food and got a chance to catch up with him.

Dinner with my cousin

Dinner with my cousin

The next day, we enjoyed brunch at my parents and went for a walk on the trail by a river. That afternoon, we went to a store that specializes in cowboy boots called Cavender’s. I actually found a pair of cute cowboy boots that were comfortable and affordable. I am now the proud owner of some great cowboy boots!

Me and my Cowboy boots!

Me and my Cowboy boots!

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Close up of my boots

In the evening, we went to a Greek Festival put on by a local Greek Orthodox Church in Ft. Worth.  The gyros, Greek fries and spanakopita were very tasty. After we ate dinner, we enjoyed some traditional Greek dancing. Everyone was in costume and they put on a good show. Later on, we went to the Ft. Worth Stockyards for a rodeo. This was my first rodeo experience, and it was quite a sight. The show itself was a little long — 2 ½ hours, but it was really exciting. I didn’t know there were that many types of events in a rodeo. It was cool to see the guys ride the bulls and horses. I kind of felt bad for the calves when they had to lasso, tie, and rope them. It was all harmless though. There were also events for women in the rodeo as well.

At the Greek Festival

At the Greek Festival

During our time in Texas, we met some friends of my parents, went to the movies, a cool grocery store called Central Market, and ate some really good food. In Ft. Worth, they have some of my favorite restaurants that they don’t have in Georgia. We made sure to take advantage of visiting some of them. We had sandwiches at Potbelly and burgers, fries and a milkshake at In-N-Out Burger. Before we knew it, it was time to come home. Our long weekend trip with my parents was over. I will see my parents this month though when they come for the holiday break. We may go back to Texas sometime next year, but soon enough, my parents will move back to Atlanta and we will be moved out of their house and into a home of our own.

A Decade Down, Forever to Go

This year on November 11, my husband and I will celebrate 10 years as a couple. Although we have only been married for two years, we have been together forever and know each other very well. We have a decade down and forever to go. In this post, I will share memories and pictures of the past 10 years starting with the year we met, 2005.

2005

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Our First Date

2005 Memories:

  • We met through Greek life at Kennesaw State.
  • Our first date was my sorority dance with friends and then we went camping afterwards.
  • We started dating and went out to parties and restaurants.
  • We went to his fraternity Christmas party and celebrated the holidays together.
  • We rung in the New Year together.

2006

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Our 9 Month Anniversary Date

2006 Memories:

  • We both celebrated our 21st birthdays.
  • We started officially dating on St. Patrick’s Day.
  • We went to Ryan’s great uncle’s lake house for the first time together over July 4th weekend.
  • We went to a lot of concerts together.
  • Ryan met my family from California during a visit for my brother’s college graduation.
  • We had our first time apart when I went to Israel.
  • In August, Ryan gave me his Greek letters to wear, a lavaliere. I had a candle pass ceremony with my sorority.
  • We had a very nice anniversary date to celebrate 9 months.

 

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Ryan’s Fraternity Formal

2007 Memories:

  • I landed an internship at the TowneLaker Magazine and Ryan landed his at Childspring International.
  • We went to my sorority formal together, the Purple Iris Ball in Atlanta.
  • We went to the lake house in Tennessee again. This time for a long weekend.
  • We also went to Ryan’s Roseball fraternity formal in October.

2008

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San Francisco and our California Coast Road Trip

2008 Memories

  • We both graduated college this year. I graduated in May, and Ryan graduated in December.
  • Upon graduation, I was hired for my first job out of college at the same magazine I interned at.
  • We attended our last fraternity and sorority formals. Ryan’s Roseball was in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.
  • We went on our first big vacation together. We flew into LA, spent time with my family, and then drove up the coast to San Francisco and back.
  • We went to our friends’ weddings.

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Bahamas Cruise

2009 Memories:

  • In January, we went on a cruise to the Bahamas.
  • In February, I unfortunately was laid off from the magazine due to the economy.
  • In March, I started working at Life University.
  • In April, we went to New York City for the first time for a long weekend.
  • I moved out of my parent’s house and into an apartment with roommates.
  • Ryan started prosthetics school at Northwestern University in Chicago and took online classes.

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My 25th Birthday

2010 Memories:

  • Ryan moved to Chicago for three months to finish up prosthetics school at Northwestern for the hands-on portion of his program.
  • We had a long distance relationship during that time and we got through it.
  • April started the Staff Newsletter at Life University.
  • Ryan graduated from Northwestern and started his prosthetics residency.
  • We celebrated our five year anniversary with dinner at Shout and stayed at the W hotel.
  • April got a second job writing freelance for Patch.com.

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Trip to Hilton Head

2011 Memories:

  • We got snowed in for a week at my apartment during the big storm.
  • We went to Hilton Head over July 4th weekend.
  • We moved in together in July to the Vinings area.
  • We went to a friend’s wedding at Villa Christina and loved it so much we ended up getting married there two years later.
  • We got our first Christmas tree for our apartment and decorated for Chanukkah and X-mas.

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Engagement Photo Shoot

Engagement Photo Shoot

2012 Memories:

  • We fostered a very cute kitty for a week. Wish we could have kept her!
  • We found a new hobby- archery! We shot bows and arrows at an archery learning center.
  • Ryan became a Certified and Licensed Prosthetist.
  • April started her personal blog here on WordPress.
  • We got engaged on September 12th! We started planning our wedding and set a date.
  • My parents found out they had to move to Texas the next year for my dad’s job.
  • We spent the Christmas holidays with my in-laws in Florida and went to the Florida Keys.

2013

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Our Wedding

2013 Memories:

  • We continued to plan our wedding and registered for gifts.
  • My brother and sister-in-law got engaged! We attended their engagement party in Baltimore, Maryland.
  • We had our engagement photo session.
  • My parents moved to Texas and we moved into their house here.
  • I had two bridal showers and a bachelorette party.
  • We got married! **September 29, 2013**
  • We went to Kauai, Hawaii for our honeymoon.
  • I totaled my Camry in an accident and then we bought a Volvo station wagon for me to drive.
  • Ryan got into photography and videography.

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At my brother’s wedding in Cancun

2014 Memories

  • My brother and sister-in-law got married in Cancun, Mexico. What a fun destination wedding!
  • We survived Snow Jam 2014. Ryan got stranded overnight in his car.
  • We attended and were in a lot of family and friends’ weddings.
  • We went to San Francisco for my cousin’s Bar Mitzvah and then went on our anniversary road trip to Vancouver and back. We stopped in Napa, the Redwoods, Portland and Seattle.
  • We celebrated our first wedding anniversary!
  • Ryan started his photography and videography business.
  • April was hired as a freelance writer for the Atlanta Jewish Times.

2015

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The Baslers do the Grand Canyon

2015 Memories:

  • We both turned the big 3-0 this year!
  • April wrote a cover story for the Atlanta Jewish Times.
  • Ryan published his website and his photography and videography business grew.
  • We went to Las Vegas in April for the first time. We also went on a Grand Canyon tour.
  • Ryan made a short film and entered it into a contest.
  • We bought a new car and swapped vehicles with family, so we’re both driving different cars now.
  • We celebrated our second wedding anniversary at a museum and had dinner where we got married.
  • We have travel plans to go to Texas soon and visit my parents. We are going to Florida for Thanksgiving with Ryan’s family.
  • And much more to come!

I’m looking forward to many more decades of happy memories with my husband, Ryan. Happy 10 years babe!

Trick or Treat

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“Trick or Treat, Smell my Feet, Give me Something good to Eat.”

It’s something most of us grew up saying on Halloween. I always loved Dressing up into costumes and going trick or treating. My costumes were hardly ever scary though. As a child, I loved the idea of ringing my neighbor’s door bell and then getting free candy. This post is a tribute to Halloween’s of the past, in a more simple time when kids could trick or treat without their parents and not worry about anything bad happening. I grew up in the 80’s and 90’s, so I have a lot of fond memories of Halloween back in the day. I looked all over my mom’s old photo albums to find pictures of my costumes from when I was little. Here is some of what I found:

Here are some of my favorite Halloween memories:

  • When I was in Kindergarten dressed as a Rock Star and went to the Halloween festival  at my school, Topeka Drive Elementary in Northridge, California
  • Being a pumpkin for who knows how many years in a row. I put a pillow in my stomach!
  • All the neighborhood Halloween parties at our friends’ house in the neighborhood I grew up in. We bobbed for apples, decorated pumpkins and one year we tried to make a haunted house with a graveyard. Didn’t work out so well…
  • The year where it snowed on Halloween and instead of being a fairy princess, I had to trick or treat around the neighborhood in a heavy jacket with my face painted.
  • Going trick or treating in huge neighborhoods with our parents driving us around in their minivans. One time we took the seats out and sat in the back. My friend’s dad opened the trunk and my friend fell out and hit the pavement! (She was OK though).
  • In seventh grade, I was Tin Woman and went trick or treating with my friends who were all characters from the Wizard of Oz. I duct taped my old Jeans and wore a silver shirt and we painted my face silver. I also had a funnel and an ax. That year, we went out in one of the nice neighborhoods and I was so excited that they gave us full size candy bars.
  • In ninth grade, I went to a lot of Halloween parties and dressed as a French Maid as well as went trick or treating.
  • Well, in tenth grade, I didn’t think I was too old to trick or treat, but actually was. I went as a devil and got tricked on. Some guys drove past me in the street and threw an open container of cottage cheese at me! I cried. That was the last time I went trick or treating lol!
  • Over the years I was a bride, a cheerleader, a bunny among other costumes.
  • In college, I went as angel freshman year and went to a sorority mixer at a bar in Athens, when I was attending the University of Georgia.
  • When I attended college at Kennesaw State, I went to a lot of fraternity Halloween parties. That next year I was a fallen angel. Aka sexy angel. After I met my boyfriend, now husband, we started doing couples costumes. One year, I was a playboy bunny and Ryan was Hugh Hefner, but in his dad’s robe he looked like Ward Cleaver!
  • The next year we went as Doctor Basler and his sexy nurse. The year after that I was having trouble finding a good costume so I ended up just picking whatever I could find that fit and went as a fairy with wings. Ryan reinvented his costume and went as an Army Doctor in his camouflage scrubs.
  • In 2010, after college, we dressed up as a Flapper and a Gangsta. That was a really fun year. We went to a Halloween party at a restaurant. No more college parties for us…
  • Now, for Halloween, we don’t really do much. One year, after my husband and I moved in together, we found out some very sad news on Halloween. My husband’s cousin has passed away. That was a very sad evening for us. Ronny you are missed.
  • We live in my parents’ house while they are in Texas and we do have a few trick or treaters who come to our door. We decorate a little bit, and since it is a small neighborhood, there are not that many door bell rings.
  • This year, Halloween is on a Saturday, so I will be re-doing my Day of the Dead makeup and being a sugar skull when the kids come to our door. We bought pumpkins and will decorate them by painting them. Carving is not my thing. See below for my inspirations.
  • At my work, we are allowed to dress up for Halloween. Since it has to be professional attire, I dressed up in a skirt and blouse with my bunny accessories.
  • What will Halloween have in store for us next year? We should be living in our new house by then, so hopefully a new location will bring more trick or treaters.

Pumpkin Inspiration:

Hope you have a Happy Halloween!

September: A Month of Milestones

Ah, September. It’s my favorite month! A lot is happening for me during the month of September. First of all, it’s my birthday month. I was born on the 17th and sometimes my birthday falls on the Jewish holiday of Rosh Hashanah, but usually not. As a child, I always looked forward to September to celebrate my birthday. I would look forward to it months in advance. So far in advance that my parents would tell me that I’m not allowed to talk about my birthday until a few months before it! I started school young, so I’m always the youngest in my grade. Everybody reached their milestones before I did. But, to my advantage, I am the last of my friends to reach the Big 3-0 birthday! I’m looking forward to my birthday, but not so much the turning 30 part. If being the youngest wasn’t enough, I also look really young for my age. I still get carded for rated R movies, and always at the liquor store. Once, in college, an airport security worker asked if I was in middle school when I was with my mom. Crazy. I’m not THAT young looking!

Secondly, September is the month I got engaged. People who know my husband and I know that I waited a LONG time for that proposal! 7 years to be exact. My husband (then boyfriend) and I moved in together in the summer of 2011. We had been dating since junior year of college and were twenty when we met and first got together. Then, after graduation, my husband did the prosthetics program at Northwestern University in Chicago and had to go on site for 3 months in addition to a 6 month prior online program. He moved back home after he graduated from the program and began his residency. He went on to take boards and become certified and licensed in prosthetics. I lived with roommates for a while and then eventually we moved in together.

I knew the engagement was coming, but I didn’t know he was proposing that day. He picked up my ring on September 11, 2012 but decided 9/11 was not a good day to propose. So, he proposed on September 12 in our apartment after I had gotten home from work. I was so happy and my ring was gorgeous! We started planning our wedding, and set the date a couple weeks later. I set the date around my Rabbi’s schedule. We probably would have gotten married in the beginning of October if Rabbi had been available then. He wasn’t, so we decided on September 29, 2013. When we chose our venue, we made sure they had that date available and booked it during the tour. We had already been to the venue before at a friend’s wedding and knew it was going to be perfect. We got married at Villa Christina in Perimeter area in Atlanta, Georgia. I highly recommend that venue. Everything was perfect and I loved our event coordinator, Julie!

Wedding planning was so much fun! Read more about my wedding plans here and here. Read my advice for newlyweds here. We went on the perfect honeymoon to Kauai, Hawaii and it was amazing.

For our first anniversary, my husband and I went on a road trip from San Francisco to Vancouver, Canada and back. It was very rushed, as we did it all in 6 days. But, we still had a great time and saw very cool sights. We wine tasted in Napa, Drove through a redwood tree in the redwood forest, went to a rose garden and Powell’s City of Books in Portland, went to Pike Place Market and Olympic Sculpture Park in Seattle, and spent time in Stanley Park in Vancouver. You can read about our first anniversary trip here.

On the day of our first anniversary, we went to dinner at a nice seafood restaurant called Chequers. The next day, we picked up our anniversary wedding top of the cake from our cake lady Eileen Carter. She tells the brides and grooms to go ahead and eat the top of their cake after the honeymoon and then makes a replica of the top of the cake for all her client’s first anniversaries! It’s such a nice thing to do. The cake usually doesn’t taste so good after being in a freezer for a year, so that’s why she does this.

This year, we are not going on a lavish anniversary vacation. We had a nice vacation in the spring where we spent a week in Las Vegas. So, this year, we decided to take the day off work and spend time together doing something fun in Atlanta. We decided to go to Fernbank, an interactive science museum. I used to go there on field trips in elementary school, but I think it will be nice to go back as an adult. We plan on going to see one of the IMAX movies there and enjoy the exhibits. Then, for dinner, we will dine at Villa Christina’s restaurant. We have never gone there for dinner before and can’t wait! From what we tasted at our wedding tasting and the food they made for our wedding, it will be a gourmet treat!

My husband and I have been keeping up with the tradition of giving the customary anniversary gifts to each other in addition to something each of us had wanted. The first anniversary gift is paper and the second anniversary gift is cotton. We use Amazon.com with lists so that we know we are getting each other what we want. It works out really well for us.

There’s a lot to look forward to this month. I will be having several birthday celebrations with friends, family and my husband. My mom is coming in town for my big birthday and I’m really excited to see her!

Here’s to many more years of birthdays and anniversaries in September!

Hold On, Let Me Check My Calendar…

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I don’t know what it is, but this summer has been incredibly busy for me.  Perhaps even the busiest summer of my life- and I didn’t even go on a real summer vacation! I had time off, but only went on trips for the weekend, usually visiting family. It’s gotten so busy that I’ve traded in my planner notebook for Google Calendar, which has been a lifesaver. I can view it on the computer or my phone and it syncs to let me know what’s going on from anywhere. It’s gotten so bad that my husband and I have to check our calendar before we make any plans. I know a lot of people are like that, but I used to be able to keep track in my head. Not now. We try to make plans and I have to say, I don’t have a free weekend until the middle of August! Today was the only real weekend day where I didn’t have any plans. We made a nice day of it, went out to lunch, shopping and to the movies. It was really nice to just decide in the moment and go and enjoy ourselves. With our friends, we have had to make dinner plans on weeknights because the weekends are too busy. I like being busy and having things to do, but sometimes it can be overkill and burn you out.

Be-so-busy-loving-your-life-that-you-have-no-time-for-hate-regret-or-fear-from-Starling-FitnessI think our busy summer started when I was off for two weeks from work and planned activities for my husband and me to do most days. He took a couple days off work to relax and spend time with me. We went to “the beach.” OK, it was the lake beach, but it was still a good time. We ate at new restaurants and really just enjoyed ourselves. Then more and more plans were made, my husband had a few more photo jobs, and our calendar really filled up. Last weekend, we traveled to Tennessee to see my husband’s niece play in a softball tournament, and they won! It was nice to spend time with my in-laws and I discovered I actually like watching softball. I’m not really a sports fan and don’t enjoy going to baseball games, so this was surprising to me.

This upcoming weekend, we are going to visit more of my husband’s family at Lake Helen, Florida. I’m really looking forward to it. Maybe we’ll go canoeing and ride on the four-wheelers again. The next weekend I will be in Athens for a celebration for the return of Delta Phi Epsilon at UGA. That is the chapter I initiated at, so I’m really excited to see the chapter come back and visit with some of my sisters from that school who I have not seen in years.

It’s looking like things will slow down for me in the fall. I’m looking forward to my birthday, not because I turn 30, but because I love my birthday- who doesn’t? Well, some people dread turning older, but I love celebrating with family and friends. My mom will be in town for my birthday and I have a couple days off work to celebrate with her. After my birthday comes, it’s my husband and I’s two year wedding anniversary! We won’t be on a fancy vacation celebrating, but we have both taken the day off work and are going to do something fun during the day in Atlanta and have dinner at a nice restaurant.

Life gets so busy, especially when you have two jobs (and so does your husband) but I wouldn’t trade mine for the world. Here’s to living life to the fullest!

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My Role as a Photographer’s Wife

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My husband, Ryan, is always finding new hobbies and has discovered his love for photography and videography over the past few years. It all started when we got a GoPro in order to document our honeymoon. His passion for photography and videography grew from there. He made several short videos about our honeymoon and enjoyed editing the videos on the GoPro Studio software as well as other free editing software. While researching wedding photographers, I found it common that people started getting into photography after hiring a professional photographer for their wedding. I would have never thought that would happen to my husband, but I’m sure glad it did.

When we got our wedding video back from our photo/video company, we were somewhat unhappy with how the video turned out. The footage was pretty good, but the music and audio were off. I wanted the video to end with our names and the text fading out. We watched the whole video only to discover with horror, that they put the wrong name for my husband! Instead of April + Ryan, it said April + Brian. We were pretty upset. Our videographer fixed it, but we still wanted to tweak the video. Since we had all the raw footage, my husband decided to see what he could do. He added more music and fixed the audio as well as our names at the end. He also did a few other wedding videos for our friends, even though he was also in both those weddings. Those were shot on GoPros and cell phones, but they really did turn out nice considering the equipment. He loved the editing process as much as shooting the videos.

Since Ryan loved making videos, I thought my husband would enjoy photography as well. I was thinking about that one day and remembered that my dad had some old film cameras in a cabinet in our house. So, I looked through the drawers and found an old Nikon FM camera from the 1970s. My husband got really excited and wanted to try it out. He bought film, and started taking pictures. Soon, he acquired his dad’s film 1980s era Minolta and my late grandfather’s 1950s Rolleiflex. He had a few photo jobs from our friends and I was his model most of the time. His pictures became better and better as time went on. He began following popular photographers online such as Jared Polin and reading books such as Understanding Exposure. He frequented camera shops in Atlanta for developing negatives and camera advice. He started getting paying gigs and saved up money for a DSLR.

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Flash forward to today, and Ryan has a budding business, a professional looking website and a growing client base. He has shot a wedding ceremony, engagement photos, maternity photos, head shots, portraits, family photos, and more. He is mainly an outdoor, natural light photographer. In addition to photography, Ryan is trying to break out into videography. He has done a martial arts promotional video and shot a short film that he wrote, directed, produced, starred in and edited. He was also hired to do his first wedding video this fall.  Although he is very passionate about it, photography and videography are just his side job. My husband works full-time in prosthetics, making artificial arms and legs. He views his small business as a hobby that people pay him for.

I like to take part in my husband’s business by helping him out on jobs as his photography assistant. I try to go to every photo job with my husband. At first, I would mainly carry extra cameras and equipment, hold the clients’ belongings, and help clients fix their hair or jewelry. Now that Ryan uses a flash in most photo shoots, I also carry the flash and umbrella on a light stand or monopod. I like to give my husband and the client ideas for certain shots and give my input on a shot whenever they need it. I really enjoy helping my husband in his photo/video business, and I view each session as something fun we can do together. I also help pick out the best images to give to the clients and have referred several of my friends and co-workers to my husband’s business. It’s been a great journey so far for both my husband and I, and I’m excited to see what the future may bring.

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I spoke with Ryan about his photography and videography business, and here’s what he had to say:

April: What is your favorite type of photography?
Ryan: I tend to like to do events and portraits. I like a mix of candid and posed photos.

A: You have had experience with using both film and digital formats. Which medium do you prefer to shoot? What are the advantages and disadvantages of both?
R: I like both. I prefer digital most of the time because I know if I got the shot or not.  With film, you could have the best photo but the subject blinked and you don’t know until the next week. I do like the slower pace of film and the challenge it creates.

A: What do you hope to see happen for your business in the future?
R: I would like to be doing one to two photo/video sessions a month. I have no plans of photography/videography being a full-time gig, so one to two a month keeps my skills up while not being so busy that I get burned out.

The pictures on this blog post were all taken by my talented husband. Want to see more of his work or possibly hire him for your next photo session or event? Check out his website at www.RyanBaslerPhotography.com.

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Our Vegas Experience Part 2

I had so much to say about our Vegas vacation that it was too much for one blog post. Here are more of our experiences in Sin City.

A Show:
The one show we saw in Vegas was the Blue Man Group. Going into it, I didn’t know what to expect. I guessed that it would be out of the box and musical. It was awesome! The Blue Man group really captures their audience and has the audience participate as much as possible. They used music, paint, technology and more to put on a spectacular show. They are, of course, covered in blue paint. I was surprised that The Blue Man Group did not talk the entire time. They communicate through gestures, facial expressions and props. It was certainly worth the money. We got tickets from the Tix4Tonight discount booth. We would have loved to go to the Circe de Soleil Beatles show called Love, but even the Tix4tonight booth wanted too much money for the tickets. Oh well, another reason to come back to Vegas and see it one day.

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The Blue Man Group

Restaurants:
As I mentioned in my last post, it felt like all we did in Vegas was eat. The restaurants were SO expensive! We spent way more money than we thought we would in Vegas, because we spent so much on food. We didn’t realize the food would be that pricy. Drinks were especially expensive, $4 for a soda, $10.50 for a mixed drink and $7 for a mocha coffee.

We ate at a lot of places, but these were our favorites:

At the Wicked Spoon

At the Wicked Spoon

Buffets:
Wicked Spoon: Cosmopolitan Hotel. This was the best buffet we have ever eaten at. The food was fabulous, the presentation was outstanding, and a wide variety was offered for brunch. My favorite things about the food presentation were the mini Chinese food containers for the fried rice and the mini fry baskets for the fried chicken. The pancakes, asparagus risotto, sushi, and the eggs Benedict were the best. I wish I could have eaten more food there, but I got full and had to leave a lot of food uneaten. The desserts were great too. I would love to go back to the Wicked Spoon one day.

Bellagio buffet: We went to the breakfast buffet at the Bellagio a few days before we went to Wicked Spoon. It was not as good as Wicked Spoon, but it sure was tasty and had a wide range of breakfast/brunch items. I really enjoyed the French toast, eggs, baked apples and the yogurt parfait. It was a ton a food and, once again, I was stuffed when I left.

Gordon Ramsay Burgr: Planet Hollywood. The first time we attempted to go here, the line was too long and we gave up. We then decided to go another day right when they opened for lunch to ensure we would get a seat right away. The food was a bit pricy for burgers and fries, but it was one of the best burgers I have ever eaten. I got the euro burger and loved it. The Truffle fries were very good as well. It was definitely worth it. Anything with Gordon Ramsay’s name has to be good!

Gordon Ramsay Burgr

Gordon Ramsay Burgr

Shopping:
Toward the end of our stay, we were running out of things to do. We decided to go shopping and found out there was a Garrett Popcorn shop at the Miracle Mile shops at Planet Hollywood. Since I love the Chicago popcorn, we went and bought a bag of the Chicago mix (which is cheddar and caramel popcorn mixed together).  It was quite delicious! We also happened to see an art gallery of one of our favorite artists, Michael Godard, called Oh My Godard. We would love to own a painting of his one day. The next day, we caught the free shuttle bus from Bally’s to the Rio so that we could go to another Michael Godard art gallery. This one had a lot more paintings and the art dealer was super nice. One day, when we decide to buy a piece, we’ll call him up in Vegas and order from him. The art dealer at the Rio informed us that Michael Godard himself would be in town and at the gallery the day we flew home. To our dismay, we missed meeting him by only a few hours. It would have been so cool to meet him!

Oh My Godard

Oh My Godard

Gambling and the Old Strip:
One day, we took the bus and went all over the south portion of the strip. We also went to the Las Vegas sign and later that evening to downtown Las Vegas. Downtown is where the old strip is located. We gambled a bit at the El Cortez. My husband played blackjack and I played at the slot machines. The El Cortez is an old casino that takes you back to the good-old Vegas casino days. It still has actual coin-operated slots. The old strip is known for the Freemont Street Experience. Most of Freemont Street is blocked off for traffic and turned into a pedestrian walkway surrounded by casinos, stores and restaurants. In the evening, the whole canopy is transformed into a neat light show, which reminded me of a music video. It was pretty cool, but I was a bit disappointed because I had heard so much hype about the light show. I guess it didn’t live up to my expectations.

The Golden Nugget in Downtown Las Vegas

The Golden Nugget in Downtown Las Vegas

Like I mentioned in my last post, we felt most comfortable gambling at the Bally’s. I lost a small sum of money at the slot machines. I preferred the penny slots to the 25 cent slots because you got to play longer and typically won more often. My husband played roulette at Bally’s and I watched him play. We had only played roulette once on a cruise ship and didn’t win a thing that time. Our luck changed tremendously in Vegas. My husband bet about 8 dollars’ worth of chips in between two of the sections of the roulette board. After the wheel was spun, the dealer was gathering a lot of chips that were our color. I thought she was organizing them. Much to our surprise, the dealer pushed a mountain of chips towards us. She said, “It only takes hitting once.” We couldn’t believe that we won! We thought we lost. We ended up winning about $150 in chips. We played a few more hands and then cashed out. Turns out, we came out ahead while gambling in Vegas. I’ll take it!

Overall, we enjoyed our stay, but we won’t be coming back to Vegas for a while. Maybe we’ll come back one day with friends. Next time we’ll stay for a shorter amount of time.

What was your trip to Las Vegas like? Leave me a comment.

Vegas Vic, Downtown Las Vegas

Vegas Vic, Downtown Las Vegas

Our Vegas Experience

View of the strip from the top of the Eiffel Tower

View of the strip from the top of the Eiffel Tower

Vegas definitely was a cool experience. What really stood out to me about our trip are three things: seeing each casino/hotel for the first time, the amazing views of the Grand Canyon, and how much walking we did.

While we did have a lot of fun on our trip, one thing we found out was: we’re not Vegas people. We don’t go out all night and drink a lot. Well, I was feeling sick during the beginning of our vacation, so I tried to stick to water. We’re not party people, so we mainly did touristy things and sightseeing. It was a cool experience but we did stay a bit too long. Five days would have been ideal to spend in Vegas, instead of the seven days we were there.

Le Cafe Ile St. Louis

Le Cafe Ile St. Louis

Here are some highlights of our vacation:

Walking Through the Hotels:
My favorite hotels were the Paris, the Venetian, the Bellagio and New York, New York. Caesar’s Palace and the Wynn were pretty cool too. I remember walking thought the Paris for the first time and loving how it seemed like you were walking through the streets in Paris, France. Even the bathroom seemed fancy and French. We ate at a café one night called Le Café Ile St. Louis. The patio of the restaurant was overlooking the casino floor, but it was decorated to seem like you were in a Parisian café. Le Café Ile St. Louis had a really great ambiance.  I am a big fan of the Paris. Even the bar stools in the casino are beautiful. The chairs are laced up to look like a corset.

Corset Barstools

Corset Barstools

One night, we rode up the elevator to go to the observation deck on the top of the Eiffel Tower. The tower is half the size of the one in Paris, France, but it was still very tall. We had a really great view! We took a lot of pictures and stayed up a while to see the Bellagio water show. We really didn’t dress for the experience. It was freezing cold on the observation deck and we were in shorts and T-Shirts! We wish we would have thought to bring a jacket. Another great thing about going to the top of the Eiffel Tower was that we got a two for one discount because we were staying at Bally’s. I highly recommend going to the top of the Eiffel Tower at the Paris Las Vegas.

Bellagio Water Show from the top of the Eiffel Tower

Bellagio Water Show from the top of the Eiffel Tower

Other than Bally’s, we spent most of our time in the Paris than any other hotel. It was connected to Bally’s and had better restaurants. We did, however, prefer the Bally’s casino when we were gambling. It seemed so familiar, easily navigable, and comfortable for us. That’s probably because we were staying there. We noticed that the different slot machines had labeled signs for each section such as penny slots and 25 cent slots. We found that the other casinos did not have these handy signs.

The "streets" of the New York, New York

The “streets” of the New York, New York

I also loved walking through the New York, New York Hotel because it is like you are walking through the streets of Manhattan. One day, we went to get a quick bite to eat at one of the restaurants and sat down at one of the nearby tables. We saw a street sign that said Greenwich and Broadway. It really felt as if we were eating in Manhattan surrounded by apartment buildings and restaurants. Some of the other hotels have the ceiling painted with blue sky and puffy white clouds to appear that you are outside. In New York, New York, it gave the illusion that it was evening and you could see the city skyline.

Inside the Venetian

Inside the Venetian

The Venetian and the Bellagio were also unforgettable. I loved the indoor and outdoor canals in the Venetian. Although we didn’t ride in a gondola, it was a neat sight to see. The ceilings were painted like the Sistine Chapel, and the architecture inside the hotel was beautiful. Two things struck me while visiting the Bellagio: the Conservatory and Botanical Garden and the lobby. They are both beautiful, and when you go into the lobby, be sure to look up at the ceiling to see the glass sculpture made by Dale Chihuly. The glass is made by the same artist as a museum in Seattle called Chihuly Garden and Glass.

Grand Canyon:
It was as amazing as I dreamed it would be. The steep cliffs and majestic beauty were truly unforgettable.  We went on Pink Jeep Tour’s Grand Canyon West Rim experience. Our very knowledgeable tour guide, John, picked us up at our hotel early in the morning. We drove to the Hoover Dam and took pictures while learning about the history of it from our tour guide. Next, we drove two and a half hours to the Grand Canyon. The West Rim portion is located in a Native American Reservation, which they have dedicated to tourism. It is the home of the Hualapai Nation. We got off the Jeep and went on a bus to the different locations within the tribal land to see the views of the canyon, go on the skywalk and have lunch. There is no guard rail, so you have to be very careful. We took pictures and then went on the Skywalk, which was really neat. It is clear glass and you can see all the way down. Some people were scared to death on it. It wasn’t bad for me once I got over the initial shock of it.  I noticed that the Colorado River, which runs through the canyon, looked really small. Then my husband reminded me that it is actually a pretty wide river. It just looks so small because you are 4,000 feet above ground level! When we had lunch, we sat down with another couple who were very glad to see fellow Americans. There were a lot of foreign tourists at the Grand Canyon and really all over Vegas. While in Las Vegas, we also saw a lot of people in scooters, and they traveled in twos or threes.

The Majestic Grand Canyon

The Majestic Grand Canyon

The Grand Canyon and Colorado River

The Grand Canyon and Colorado River

Lots of Walking Around:
While driving, everything on the strip seems so close. When you walk, it’s really a lot farther away than you think. We didn’t rent a car, so when we didn’t use public transportation, we were walking. You will learn very quickly that comfortable shoes are key for walking around in Vegas. 

If you choose not to ride the bus or take a taxi, take advantage of the free trams that go between two or three hotels. They could cut down your walking time from faraway places on the strip tremendously. Sometimes it felt like all we did in Vegas was eat, eat, eat, but at least we walked a lot to make up for it.

Read more about our Vegas vacation in the next installment coming soon.

On a bridge overlooking the Paris.

On a bridge overlooking the Paris.

Viva Las Vegas: Pre-Trip Post

SFU-Las-Vegas2It’s time for our next vacation! I always get inspired to write posts about vacations, but hey, going to new places is what makes life interesting! After much contemplation, we decided to go to Las Vegas this spring for our next big vacation. I’ll get to cross another destination on my Travel Bucket List. See that blog post here. My husband and I like to go on a big trip at least once a year. We had originally planned on going to London. We have always wanted to go to Europe and had wanted to do the London trip for years. But, we found out how much it was going to cost, which was a lot higher than our budget. A London trip may not be in our near future, especially since we may plan to have kids in the next several years, but we WILL go one day! My husband accrued thousands of American Airline miles for our London trip to pay for the flight, but we will keep on saving them for our next great adventure.

A few months ago, my husband and I were talking about what vacation we would like to do next, since London was out of the question. New York and Chicago came to mind. We talked about it for about an hour in the car (not sure where we were going but it was somewhere pretty far away) and it took us that long to think of going to Las Vegas. We said, “How did it take that long for us to think of a Vegas vacation!?” Some time went by, and then a few weeks ago, we seriously considered going to Vegas in June. We looked up flights and hotels and priced things out. Then, we realized Vegas in June can be over 100 degrees. So, a sooner date was picked. We looked at hotel prices for the last week in April and they were a bit high. Then we looked at the week before and the hotel prices dropped dramatically. So, we booked our trip for mid-April. We used Delta miles for our flights and somehow were able to purchase them with fewer miles than anticipated and no surcharges. The flight was totally free! We decided to stay at Bally’s because they are a nice, centrally located hotel with good prices.

Bally's

Bally’s

This is my pre-trip post and I will be posting a trip after our Vegas vacation too of course. Despite what others told us, we decided to go to Vegas for a week. We already had the time off work, and we don’t think we’ll get bored since we are not big partyers.

We will also be going on a few day trips during our time in Vegas. We plan to go on the Pink Jeep Tours trip to the Grand Canyon. It is an all day tour that will pick us up at our hotel at 6 a.m. The Grand Canyon is a few hours away from Vegas. That is something we have always wanted to see. They have a skywalk where you can see great views of the canyon. If we decide we are tired of the strip, we may rent a car for a day and go on the Hoover Dam tour as well as explore the areas surrounding Las Vegas.

I plan on relaxing on a lawn chair by the pool while in Vegas. April is the start of pool season and I heard Bally’s has a really nice pool. I purchased a new bathing suit and cover ups for the trip. I really need to get my body in shape so that I am swim suit ready. My husband and I are doing a weight loss program together with the My Fitness Pal app. So far, we’ve been sticking to it and it’s going very well. So far, I lost about a pound and he lost 5 ½ pounds! Men always loose more. So unfair!

While in Vegas, we of course have to go to a show. We definitely plan to go see the Blue Man Group and have heard very good things about that show. I have also heard good things about the Beatles tribute Circe de Soleil show called Love. We may go see that show as well if we can get discounted tickets the day of at the Tix4Tonight booth. I’ve heard there are a lot of free shows in Vegas such as the fountain show at the Bellagio and the volcano show at the Mirage. We plan on doing all the free shows while we are there. You can’t beat free!

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Here are some other things we are going to try to do while in Vegas:

  • Eat well: Straying from a diet for vacation makes it all worth it. Besides, if you’re on vacation it doesn’t count, right? We’re not sure where we will go out to eat yet. I know I want to do a breakfast or brunch buffet. I’ve been dying to go to In–N-Out Burger since we were in California last September. I saw there was one in Vegas, so we’re going! We also got a few restaurant recommendations from family and friends. We are going to Gordon Ramsay Burgr because we’ve always wanted to eat at one of his restaurants. I plan to read up in my Fodor’s Las Vegas 2015 Guide Book about good places to eat in Sin City.
  • Walk thorough all the hotels: From the Eiffel Tower in Paris to the canals at the Venetian, we’re excited to see it all. I’ve heard each hotel is incredibly unique and different from the rest.
  • Downtown: We were told to go downtown and see the strip in old Las Vegas where the original casinos are and where it all started. We plan to gamble a bit at the Golden Nugget or the 4 Queens. The gambling is cheaper at the old strip. So are the hotels. We also plan to see the Freemont Street Experience, which is a cool show under an arched canopy with tons of lights, cool music, and dancers.
  • Shopping: My guide book told me to check these places out- Grand Canal Shoppes (stores near St. Mark’s Square at the Venetian).  The Miracle Mile Shops at Planet Hollywood and The Shoppes at Mandalay Place, which is, of course, located at Mandalay Bay.
  • Bally’s Gym and Spa: It will be good to have a nice gym in our hotel, especially a Bally’s gym. Use of the fitness center is included in the resort fee of the hotel (which we were required to pay).
  • Ride the tram/bus/monorail to get around: We will have to use public transportation since we don’t plan on renting a car for the majority of the trip. We may take a few taxis, like to and from the airport, but I’ve heard the bus/tram/monorail is the way to go. And the trams are free!
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    Paris

    New York- New York

    New York New York

There’s less than a month to go before we leave! I’m ready for a vacation where there’s no schedule. No more road trips! (See my post called Pacific Northwest Road Trip about our first wedding anniversary vacation). We are going to see all the sights in Vegas but not make a schedule. As I have explained, we have a few things planned out, but we plan to just enjoy ourselves and not be burdened by the clock.

The lights, the sights, the casinos, the people — it can all be overwhelming and over stimulating, but that is what makes Vegas unique. I’ve even heard that walking down the strip makes you feel like you’re on acid. I wouldn’t know about that!

I am so excited for the Vegas trip! What’s your favorite thing to do in Vegas? If you don’t want to tell me, I understand. After all, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.

Venetian

The Venetian

Luxor

Luxor

 

Dirty 30

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This is the year all my friends and I turn 30. Since I was born in the fall, I will be one of the last ones to celebrate this dreaded birthday. When you were younger, you always thought when you’re 30, you’ll have your life together. For a lot of people, this is not the case. But hey, it’s never too late to get your shit straightened out.

By the time most people are 30 they have careers and not jobs. I wouldn’t say my current full-time job is a career, but I do enjoy editing the staff newsletter. It’s been great to write articles, edit, lead and manage a team. It’s nice to have the final say in what is published. I’ve been doing that for five years and working at the university for almost six now. I always said it was a temporary job, but its’ not so temporary after six years.

During that time, I have had the privilege to be a freelance writer/journalist at two different publications. First, at Patch.com, a community based news website. Recently, I have been given a fantastic opportunity to write for the Atlanta Jewish Times. I was even assigned a cover story for my third assignment! You can read my work here and here, and the cover story about Jewish youth conventions hosted in Atlanta here.

Another thing most people hope to do by the time they turn 30 — get married. I got engaged when I was just about 27 and married just after I turned 28. When I was younger, I thought I’d be married at 25. We all think we will accomplish life’s milestones at a younger age than we actually do. But, life happens. Since I had been in a steady relationship since college, I always knew I would eventually get married and it would happen before I turned 30. Some single people get anxious about the fact that they are 30+ without a significant other. But, it’s better to be single than in a bad relationship. And sometimes it’s best to be single and work on you for a change. You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. For those who want to find love, it can be hard to meet someone. Most people I know met their husband/wife in college. But for those who didn’t, there’s always online dating. It’s getting much more common to date and meet people on online dating sites nowadays. I know many couples who have met that way and have gotten married. After all, they do match you up with people you are compatible with.

And of course, after marriage comes babies. People expect you to have children once you have been married for a while. And some ask you constantly and a lot sooner after you’re married than you think they would.  I do want to have kids one day, maybe in a few years, but I’m tired of people asking me that all the time. I can’t even say “guess what” anymore without someone saying, “Oh my God are you pregnant?”

When you’re married you have two groups of friends, those with kids and those without. And sometimes the two groups all get together, but a lot of times you only hangout with your non-parent friends. It’s harder for the parents to go out and make plans as they need to find a babysitter or they just don’t go out as often. I would imagine that families with kids usually hang out with other families who have kids more often than with couples who aren’t parents. That’s just how it works. But, someday I’ll be in the mommy club. I just want to enjoy being married for a while before I have kids.

When most people turn 30, they just feel old. You’re no longer a 20 something. Now you really feel like an adult. The older we get we have more responsibilities. You can’t count on handouts from mom and dad anymore (well most of the time). At least I am usually told, “You’re married now, I’m not paying for that anymore.” I guess being married really classifies you as an adult to most parents of 20/30 somethings.

My husband just turned 30 last week. It’s a big milestone to celebrate. We actually celebrated about four times with dinners, family and friends. I will turn 30 in September, and I’m not too thrilled. Some people look forward to turning 30. Most people I know dread it. However you look at it, at least you’re still here and at least you’ve matured. Well, most people can say that!

Here’s to turning 30!

Dirty Thirty with Martini