Getting There is Half the Fun

I’ve done my fair share of traveling in my life and I thought I’d share some great things to do in the Golden State. Originally from California, I have spent a lot of time there visiting. In 2008, my boyfriend and I took a road trip on Highway 1 from Los Angeles to San Francisco. My other favorite vacation spots include New York City, the Bahamas, Mexico (the gulf and the Mexican Riviera), Florida, Hilton Head, Charleston, Israel and the Cayman Islands.

Tip: When planning a vacation to a city you have not been, it is always good to plan ahead. Buy a guide or book about the place you plan to visit. I recommend Fodor’s or Frommer’s. They come out with new tour guides to all the major cities around the world each year. They give you tips about where to stay, what to do, shopping, nightlife, attractions, etc. I have found these books to be a lifesaver when going to a new place. After all, what good is going on vacation when you don’t know how to have fun at your destination?

California: Road trip up the Pacific Coast Highway
From LA to San Francisco: Things to do city by city

The Chinese Theatre in Hollywood

Star hand and foot prints at the Chinese Theatre.

Los Angeles: Walk along the Hollywood Walk of Fame on Hollywood Boulevard. Here you can see the stars of celebrities. In front of the Chinese Theatre you can put your hands and feet into the prints of the stars. I always thought it was neat to see handprints of actors and actresses from the 1930’s and earlier. Be prepared to spend a lot of money if you decide to go shopping on Rodeo Drive. Visit the La Brea Tar Pits, the world’s most famous Ice Age fossil excavation site. (It is also where Veda [Anna Chulmsky] lost her mood ring in the movie My Girl). For a dollar, in Hollywood you can pick up a map of the star’s homes in Beverly Hills and Bel Air. You could try and find the house of Hollywood actor Vincent Chase. Oh wait, that’s Adrian Grenier from Entourage. You can visit the original happiest place on earth, Disneyland. Universal Studios is another great theme park, and in my opinion, better than the park in Orlando, Florida. Too bad they no longer have the Back to the Future ride!

Santa Monica

The Santa Monica Pier

Beaches: In Santa Monica, be sure to walk along the Santa Monica Pier. You can ride on the roller coaster, ferris wheel or play carnival games. Walking along the beach, you may notice the lifeguard stands looks pretty familiar. It is because the show Baywatch was filmed here. Santa Monica beach — where men pretend to be David Hasselhoff and women try to resemble Pamela Anderson. Third Street Promenade in Santa Monica is a great outdoor shopping area and guitar players and other music acts frequent this mall. Venice Beach is a great place to people watch. From artists to dancers, weird dressers, and acts with animals, you never know who you will find. Venice is also the site of Muscle Beach, which is known for bodybuilders working out.  While in Venice Beach, be sure to shop along the strip where outdoor vendors sell all kinds of souvenirs. Other notable beaches in southern California include Malibu and Santa Barbara.

Hearst Castle Neptune Pool.

San Simeon: Hearst Castle is one attraction you won’t want to miss. The magnificent estate of 165 rooms and 127 acres of gardens, terraces, pools and walkways was built by William Randolph Hearst. You must buy tickets in advance and they offer several different tours. Plan to spend half a day at the castle. From the welcome center, you will take a tram up to the castle and then a tour guide will

Hearst Castle.

take you on a walking tour of the grounds. This is one of the most beautiful places I have ever been to and the outdoor pool is a sight to see. Back in the day, Hearst Castle was the site of many parties that famous movie stars attended. It certainly had the space for it!

Big Sur:This region on the central California coast is an area where the Santa Lucia Mountains rise abruptly from the Pacific Ocean. The terrain offers stunning views which makes Big Sur a big tourist attraction. We ate at a restaurant overlooking the ocean called the Nepenthe, and the view was spectacular.

Big Sur.

Carmel: This city by the sea is a charming little town that appears to look very nautical, at least from walking around town at all the little shops and restaurants. Here you can dine, shop or have a wine tasting. Between Carmel and Monterey, venture on the famous
17 mile drive that passes through an exclusive neighborhood, past scenic beaches, golf courses and luxury hotels. Watch out! Golf courses can be kind of expensive. Pebble Beach Golf Course is known to charge $500 per round.

Cannery Row, Monterey.

Monterey: Take a walk down Cannery Row, a waterfront street in Monterey that is a major tourist attraction. It has great restaurants and shops. We visited a candy shop that had quite exceptional fudge. Another attraction is watching the sea animals at the Monterey Bay Aquarium which always has special shows and exhibitions.

San FranciscoOne of my favorite cities in world, there is always something to do in the

Fisherman’s Wharf.

city by the bay. Visit Fisherman’s Wharf, and eat some of the delicious seafood. They sell whole crabs ready to eat and clam chowder in sourdough bread bowls. Ride a cable car. It is best to catch one on route. You may have to wait hours at the cable car station. Drive down Lombard Street, the crookedist street in the world. There is usually a long line of cars waiting for their turn to go down. Visit Golden Gate Park. See the view of the city from Coit Tower. Eat a sundae at Ghirardelli Square. Walk along the boardwalk on Pier 39. Travel over the Golden Gate Bridge. Go to Chinatown where you can find Chinese wares and some great Dim Sum restaurants. Shop near Union Square and visit the seven story Macy’s department store. Visit Napa Valley or Sonoma and tour the wineries. The possibilities are endless.

The Golden Gate Bridge.

Highway 1 is a beautiful scenic route and if you are looking to take a great vacation, I highly recommend taking a road trip like the one I shared with you.

San Francisco.

Author’s Note: All photographs in this post were taken by me or my travel companions.

April’s Guide to Chick Lit

My favorite authors and top book recommendations.

I have always loved to read fiction books and most of the books I have chosen over the past 10 years are categorized as chick lit. These books address issues of modern womanhood, often humorously and lightheartedly.  If you like chick lit, you should check these authors out:

1.  Sophie Kinsella: Her real name is Madeline Wickham and Kinsella is her pen name. She has written books under both names. I have read practically everything she’s written. I started off with the Shopaholic books and then discovered her stand alone novels which I liked even more. I could like these books so much because I have Shopaholic tendencies myself…  Her books always have twists and turns and unexpected endings. Her writing draws you in and as you read you get hooked. She also ties humor into her books. Here are some of my favorites by Kinsella:

Shopaholic seriesConfessions of a Shopaholic, Shopaholic takes Manhattan, Shopaholic Ties the Knot, Shopaholic and Sister, Shopaholic and Baby, and Mini Shopaholic.

“Becky Bloomwood has what most twenty-five-year-olds only dream of: a flat in London’s trendiest neighborhood, a troupe of glamorous socialite friends, and a closet brimming with the season’s must-haves. The only trouble is, she can’t actually afford it — not any of it. Her job writing at Successful Saving magazine not only bores her to tears, it doesn’t pay much at all. Still, how can she resist that perfect pair of shoes? Or the divine silk blouse in the window of that ultra-trendy boutique?

But lately Becky’s been chased by dismal letters from Visa and the Endwich Bank — letters with large red sums she can’t bear to read — and they’re getting ever harder to ignore. She tries cutting back; she even tries making more money. But none of her efforts succeeds. Her only consolation is to buy herself something … just a little something… Finally, a story arises that Becky actually cares about, and her front-page article catalyzes a chain of events that will transform her life — and the lives of those around her — forever.”

Can you Keep a Secret?:  “Meet Emma Corrigan, a young woman with a huge heart, an irrepressible spirit, and a few little secrets: Secrets from her boyfriend: I’ve always thought Connor looks a bit like Ken. As in Barbie and Ken. Secrets from her mother: I lost my virginity in the spare bedroom with Danny Nussbaum while Mum and Dad were downstairs watching Ben-Hur. Secrets she wouldn’t share with anyone in the world: I have no idea what NATO stands for. Or even what it is. Until she spills them all to a handsome stranger on a plane. At least, she thought he was a stranger.…Until Emma comes face-to-face with Jack Harper, the company’s elusive CEO, a man who knows every single humiliating detail about her…”

Remember Me?: “When twenty-eight-year-old Lexi Smart wakes up in a London hospital, she’s in for a big surprise. Her teeth are perfect. Her body is toned. Her handbag is Vuitton. Having survived a car accident—in a Mercedes no less—Lexi has lost a big chunk of her memory, three years to be exact, and she’s about to find out just how much things have changed.

Somehow Lexi went from a twenty-five-year-old working girl to a corporate big shot with a sleek new loft, a personal assistant, a carb-free diet, and a set of glamorous new friends. And who is this gorgeous husband—who also happens to be a multimillionaire? With her mind still stuck three years in reverse, Lexi greets this brave new world determined to be the person she…well, seems to be. That is, until an adorably disheveled architect drops the biggest bombshell of all.

Suddenly Lexi is scrambling to catch her balance. Her new life, it turns out, comes complete with secrets, schemes, and intrigue. How on earth did all this happen? Will she ever remember? And what will happen when she does?”

2.  Emily Giffin: This great author from Atlanta, Georgia hasn’t written a lot of novels. But one of her novels was made into a movie (Something Borrowed). All her novels are about women and relationships. As you are reading, the stories always unfold about a women’s life and you don’t really know where the story is going until you are almost done. But, her writing is phenomenal and she makes the reader really care about her characters. I like how she ties in characters of old books she has written into her new books even if they are not part of that series. She has a new book called Where we Belong coming out on June 24.  Here are some of my favorites from Giffin:

Heart of the Matter:Tessa Russo is the mother of two young children and the wife of a renowned pediatric surgeon.  Despite her own mother’s warnings, Tessa has recently given up her career to focus on her family and the pursuit of domestic happiness. From the outside, she seems destined to live a charmed life.

Valerie Anderson is an attorney and single mother to six-year-old Charlie–a boy who has never known his father.  After too many disappointments, she has given up on romance–and even to some degree, friendships–believing that it is always safer not to expect too much.

Although both women live in the same Boston suburb, the two have relatively little in common aside from a fierce love for their children.  But one night, a tragic accident causes their lives to converge in ways no one could have imagined.”

Something Borrowed:Something Borrowed tells the story of Rachel, a young attorney living and working in Manhattan. Rachel has always been the consummate good girl—until her thirtieth birthday, when her best friend, Darcy, throws her a party. That night, after too many drinks, Rachel ends up in bed with Darcy’s fiancé. Although she wakes up determined to put the one-night fling behind her, Rachel is horrified to discover that she has genuine feelings for the one guy she should run from. As the September wedding date nears, Rachel knows she has to make a choice. In doing so, she discovers that the lines between right and wrong can be blurry, endings aren’t always neat, and sometimes you have to risk all to win true happiness. Something Borrowed is a phenomenal debut novel that will have you laughing, crying, and calling your best friend.”

3.   Jennifer Weiner: Now, I have only read two of her many books, (Good in Bed and Then Came You) but she is a great chick lit writer and has a wide variety of novels out. I enjoyed both of the books immensely and her stories are fun to read. Like Giffin, Jennifer Weiner makes you really care about the characters in her books. Good in Bed deals with women’s issues with body image that many women can relate to. Weiner’s new book called The Next Best Thing comes out on July 3. Here is my favorite of the two I’ve read from Weiner:

Then Came You: “The lives of four very different women intertwine in unexpected ways in this new novel by bestselling author Jennifer Weiner (In Her Shoes; Best Friends Forever). Each woman has a problem: Princeton senior Jules Wildgren needs money to help her dad cure his addiction; Pennsylvania housewife Annie Barrow is gasping to stay financially afloat; India Bishop yearns to have a child, an urge that her stepdaughter Bettina can only regard with deeply skepticism until she finds herself in a most unexpected situation. Interlocking dramas designed to ensnare; bound to be a bestseller.”

Honorable Mentions: Some of my other favorites (not necessarily chick lit) that you should check out.

  • The Hunger Games Trilogy by Suzanne Collins
  • The Twilight Saga by Stephenie Meyer
  • The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants Series by Ann Brashares
  • My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult
  • The Help by Kathryn Stockett
  • The Host by Stephenie Meyer

On my List to Read:

  • A Total Waste of Makeup by Kim Gruenenfelder
  • Last Night at Chateau Marmont by Lauren Weisberger
  • Certain Girls by Jennifer Weiner
  • The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Series by Steig Larsson
  • 40 Love by Madeline Wickham
  • Every Boy’s Got One by Meg Cabot

Websites about books that you should look up:

  • GoodReads: here you can keep track of what you have read and what you want to read. It allows you to follow your Facebook friends’ bookshelves, review books, and keep track of what you are reading currently, sharing all the information with your Good Reads friends
  • Fantastic Fiction: This is a site based out of the U.K. that my boyfriend’s dad told me about. It allows you to look up book and authors and see everything they have ever written and upcoming novels they are working on. A good feature of this site is that it tells you if certain books are in a series and what order they are in. Although it doesn’t have a great web design, it is a useful site.

Please let me know if you decide to read any book I recoommend in the comments of this blog.

Happy Reading!

Life After College

Life after High School and College: When Your Social Life Turns into Your Work Life

In this blog entry, I want to share a common problem most twenty something college graduates may have. For me, college and high school now seem like such a long time ago. My ten year high school reunion is creeping up on me and, a little over four years ago, I graduated from college. After college, when I joined the working world with a full time nine to five, I noticed that my social life had dwindled. Not that it went away completely, but I was going to less social engagements and work seemed to take up more of my life. The sorority events, fraternity parties, and homecomings turned into deadlines, business emails, and life spent at the computer. I suspect this happens to a lot of college graduates when they enter the work force. In college, I was in a sorority and between that, school, dating, and my part time job, I was incredibly busy. Once I changed over that tassel on my graduation cap, my social calendar somewhat declined. But, if you want to have a good balance between work life and social life, you have to plan for it.

Kennesaw Graduate

My Graduation from KSU

It’s hard to be as busy socially when you have a full time job that requires you to wake up at the crack of dawn and go to work every weekday. For me, and my current job, I work four 10-hour days. You try having dinner with friends and getting in time for a workout when you get off at 7 p.m. every day! For me, a good benefit is having three day weekends and never having to work on a Monday. This brings me to my next point—take advantage of your weekends! Having three days instead of two allows for weekend trips and makes it easier when you go on vacation. But, if you only have two days, you need to make the most of them. Unless you work from home on the weekends sometimes, these are your two days to relax, unwind, and have fun with friends and family. Get out there and have some fun!

One thing that has made my life busier is joining my sorority alumnae association. We have events several times a month, so it brings back that sense of togetherness and added social time. As the twenty somethings get to be closer to thirty, life gets busier with co-habitation, marriage and having children. But, while most of us don’t wish to go back in time and relive our college years, you still sometimes miss staying out all night partying when your alarm goes off bright and early at 6 a.m. for work. Well, back to the grind…