My Interfaith Holiday Celebration

Hanukkah 2010

Hanukkah 2010

It’s here again — the holiday season. A time we look forward to all year. There are Christmas trees all lit up and decorated, Menorahs with burning candles glistening in the windows, holiday music is playing in all the stores, people go frantic trying to find the right gifts for their loved ones and everyone is in the holiday spirit.

I grew up Jewish, and I celebrate Hanukkah. When I was younger, I used to be offended when someone would wish me a Merry Christmas. I thought, why can’t you just say Happy Holidays?  It’s funny — now that I celebrate Christmas with my husband, I don’t mind at all. I never thought I would ever decorate a Christmas tree or let alone have one in my home. But, I like to incorporate my husband’s traditions into our lives, so we have a tree in our home along with my menorahs and the Hanukkah decorations.

I celebrate both Hanukkah and Christmas and here are some of our traditions:

Hanukkah:

When I was a kid, we celebrated Hanukkah in the traditional way. We had 8 nights of lighting candles and received one or two presents each night — some big and some small gifts. We always had potato latkes at least once during Hanukkah. It falls on a different day every year since the holiday goes by the Jewish calendar. Now that we’re all grown up, we have one big Hanukkah celebration on one night. And, since my parents live in Texas and won’t be in town for Hanukkah, we will have a “belated” Hanukkah celebration before New Year’s. We did that last year as well. We make latkes and sing to the Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack. Our favorite song is called Matchmaker. We sing and dance while we cook. We exchange presents with my family and sometimes there are so many it takes over an hour to open them all. This year, I think my husband and I are going to try and light the candles every night during Hanukkah. Hanukkah falls on December 16 — 24 this year.

Not many people who aren’t Jewish know the story of Hanukkah. It isn’t even one of the most significant Jewish Holidays. Click here for the story of Hanukkah. You will learn about the Maccabees and the miracle of the oil.

Making Latkes 2011

Making Latkes 2011

Presents Hanukkah 2011

Presents Hanukkah 2011

Christmas:

Every Christmas, we go over to my in-law’s house on Christmas Eve. We bring presents over and put them under the tree. We spend the night, and in the morning open all of the presents and our stockings. Then, we usually have a big breakfast (Southern Style). We spend the day together and have a big Christmas dinner with ham and all the fixings. Sometimes we eat it for a late lunch. My in-laws are not very religious and they don’t go to church. So, this is how they celebrate the holiday. It’s a great way to celebrate indeed!

Christmas 2009

Christmas 2009

Christmas 2011

Christmas 2011

Christmas 2013

Christmas 2013

Presents:

I like to get ahead of the game in regard to presents for the holidays.  I strive to get all of my presents wrapped and under the tree at least by mid December. So far, I have bought all of my Hanukkah/Christmas gifts for my family and friends except for one item.  I mainly buy for my family now and sometimes I buy things for my friends. When I was in school, I always bought presents for my friends, but as adults we don’t really want to exchange holiday presents anymore. But, we still have many gift-giving occasions, such as birthdays and weddings.

My husband and I have always given each other one big gift for Hanukkah and one big gift for Christmas. We usually make Amazon universal wish lists for each other. That way we know we are getting each other what we really want. It really has worked out well for us.

Presents and Tree 2014

Presents and Tree 2014

Tree and Decorations:

This past weekend we put up our tree. When we first got the tree, we lived in an apartment. We decided to get a 4-foot tree since we did not have that much room. Since it was my first tree, we wanted to incorporate Hanukkah into the tradition. So we got all blue, white and silver ornaments. Glass and plastic balls, glittery icicle ornaments, a sequined silver tree skirt and a blue glittery gold star topper. We call it the Chrismahanukkah tree. Now that we are in a house, we still use the same tree. I imagine when we get our own house; we will buy a bigger tree and more ornaments. All of the presents don’t usually fit under the tree, so we put a large majority of them on the fireplace next to the tree. I also decorate for Hanukkah and we have a lot of decorations all over the house. I’m really happy with how our house looks all decorated right now.

The Future:

One day when we have children, I’d like to incorporate both holidays (Hanukkah and Christmas) into our children’s lives. I’m not quite sure how we would do that yet. But, I would like to have the traditions we do now live on by passing them down to our children and then one day to their children.

We’re ready for this holiday season! Are you? How do you celebrate the holidays? Leave me a comment below.

Our Tree 2011

Our Tree 2011

Our Tree 2012

Our Tree 2012

Our Tree 2014

Our Tree 2014

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The Fireplace at my in-law’s House

 

 

Road Trip: From Cold Atlanta to the Sunny Florida Keys

While many of my friends were traveling up north to go home for Christmas and the holidays, my fiancé and I took a road trip to Florida. We drove from I-75 to the Florida Turnpike- all the way to the end. What’s at the end? The Everglades (and a bunch of alligators and large snakes!) But we didn’t drive to Florida for the swamp. We went to stay with my fiancé’s family for Christmas. His parents’ permanent home is in the metro Atlanta area, but they are currently residing in Florida City, which is near Homestead. His dad took a temporary job in Homestead and we stayed with them in their condo for the holidays. It was really nice since I was off work for almost two weeks. We spent our entire vacation in Florida and had a blast. It was really nice to spend time with my fiancé’s family and have a nice sunny Christmas Day in which we could wear shorts and T-shirts. It was a little strange not being at their house for the holiday, but we managed in the condo.

It was a 13-hour car ride down to Florida but we made it in 12 hours and it really was not all that bad. It didn’t feel like it was a very long time. We passed the time talking and listening to music. We even made a gas tank last almost 600 miles! My ‘ 99 Toyota Camry (also known as a ticking time bomb) gets great mileage, especially on the highway using cruise control.

We finally arrived to the condo and had a nice few days relaxing and enjoying our vacation. We mainly just hung around the condo and went on errands to a few stores. We drove down to Key Largo to see the sites and ate at a very nice restaurant on a marina overlooking the water called The Pilot House Marina, Restaurant and Glass Bottom Bar. The floor of the patio had a glass bottom, and you could see the fish swim by as you ate. Even tried some fried gatorbites! My fiancé thought the gatorbites tasted like chicken.

Outside the Pilot House

Outside the Pilot House

Christmas day was spent opening gifts, eating a big breakfast and then another big meal for Christmas dinner. Santa was very good to this Jewish girl! On Christmas my fiancé and I took a nice walk around the condo complex and just enjoyed being in the warm weather. If we had spent Christmas in Atlanta, it would have been a very different story.

Later on in the week, we went to the Everglades Alligator Farm, where we went on an air boat ride though the swamp. There definitely wasn’t a splash free zone on that boat. It was really neat to see the wildlife and fun when the airboat did doughnuts in the marsh. We also went to the snake show and the alligator show, which was very impressive. The Everglades Alligator Farm is the only place in the world that houses both alligators and crocodiles in captivity. They are in separate fenced-in areas of course. We saw a lot of baby alligators. Too bad they grow up to be big mean gators!

Everglades Alligator Farm

Everglades Alligator Farm

Baby Gators

Baby Gators

Key West. What an adventure! The three-hour car ride from Florida City to Key West left us in the mood for sightseeing and fun. Once we parked, we set off to walk around the island. Shopping and looking at restaurants took up most of the afternoon. We kept trying to find a place for lunch but ruled out just about every place we walked by. Then we ended up at the end of the island at the Southernmost Point. What a tourist spot! By that time we were so hungry that we bought a coconut on the side of the street. This guy had a big cart with a barrel full of coconuts and a drill. One by one he would drill a hold in the coconuts, put a straw in them and charge three dollars a pop. It was pretty good but so heavy! We ended up throwing half of it away.

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We walked by the Hemingway house but decided not to go in. They wanted 13 dollars per person for admission! We walked back and finally found a restaurant to eat at with a great Mahi Mahi wrap. Then we explored Key West some more. By the end of the day, we had walked across the whole island and back.

Hemingway House

Hemingway House

In the evening, we had tickets to a snorkel and sunset cruise, which started out as a disaster and ended calmly. A rocking catamaran with 40 plus people scrunched in it, led to snorkeling in high waves. There actually wasn’t much snorkeling going on at all, just trying to keep our heads above water and not have the current smack us into the boat. We decided we had enough of it. With our bellies full of salt water and fogged up diving masks, we swam the short distance back to the boat. I tried to board the boat and the waves knocked me into the stairs, leaving me with a huge bruise on my leg that lasted for weeks. It wasn’t all bad though. As we sailed back to the shore, a beautiful sunset was in our view throughout the rest of the cruise. After the cruise, we went out to a restaurant called Turtle Krawls where they race live turtles. The food was superb, and we enjoyed grilled oysters, crab dip and the traditional Key lime pie. Late at night, we headed back through Marathon, Key Largo and the smaller keys to return to the condo in Homestead.

Key West Sunset

Key West Sunset

We had a wonderful experience with all the people throughout the Florida Keys. All the places we went were clean and inviting environments. The Florida Keys have a reputation of being expensive. They do live up to this, but I think it is worth every dollar. I highly recommend it and plan to go back again someday.

The next day we went to Miami. Let’s just say we will not be going back. This is what made our trip unpleasant: Traffic. No place to park. Crowded beach and streets, for starts.  All the restaurants had patios that extended in to the Street. (Ocean drive was blocked off to vehicle traffic to prepare for the Orange Bowl festivities). Servers and hostesses would stand near the patio entrance to each restaurant and try to get tourists to come in and dine with them. There would be a big sign out front with all the specials. We thought wow, lucky us; we’ll get to eat for cheaper! But this was only to lure frugal tourists like us in. My piece of advice: Don’t order the special! The restaurant we ate at did not even want to deal with us since we wanted to only pay $10 per meal like the sign advertised. Not only did we have bad service, we were overcharged and the food was not impressive. Here is a picture of the $50 appetizer that definitely was not worth the money. But if we only had one bad experience on our lengthy vacation, I’d have to say the trip was a success.

Overpriced appetizer!

Overpriced appetizer!

Miami Beach

Miami Beach

Other memorable moments of our vacation included eating at a dive bar in Key Largo called Shipwrecks that had exceptional seafood baskets and our trip to Homestead Bay Park. The park overlooked the bay on one side and the ocean on the other. It was a beautiful day to walk around and enjoy the scenery. There was also a marina at the park that housed a variety of boats. Our drive home went by fast, and overall we had a great tropical vacation!

Homestead Bay Park

Homestead Bay Park