The summer before we got married, my husband and I moved into my parent’s house while my parents were living in Texas temporarily for my dad’s job. It put us in a nice situation to save money and we didn’t have a huge rent bill each month like we did in our old apartment. Now, my parents are coming back in November, a bit earlier than planned, so we started the process of looking into buying a home of our own. We already knew of a realtor, our rabbi’s wife, and we got recommendations for lenders. We got pre-qualified and began looking at houses.

We had wanted to live in the East Cobb area of Marietta, Georgia, but we quickly found that with our budget, we could only afford a ranch style house and not a big home like we had dreamed of. We then decided to look in the Kennesaw area. We looked at three houses and didn’t really like any of them. We decided we were going to stop looking and save up money for a few more months. Then, oh a whim, we decided to look at a house in Kennesaw a few days later that had really great curb appeal. It was kind of on the top of our budget, but it looked promising. We saw the house and slowly began to fall in love with it. It had a great kitchen, a semi-open floor plan, a decent-sized living room, plenty of room upstairs, a sunroom, a wrap around porch, a nice master bath and a fenced in yard.

I was a bit nervous to make an offer because I didn’t think we were ready for that yet. After all, we had just started looking and still had plenty of time before my parents moved back. But, we decided to put in an offer on this wonderful house. Our realtor called the listing agent and there were already multiple offers on the house, so we had to move quickly. We went back to our realtor’s office and filled out the paperwork. My realtor thought it would be a good idea to write a letter to the seller about how much we liked the house. We sent off the paperwork and waited.

At about ten o’clock the next morning, I got a call from our realtor saying she had good news- they had accepted our offer! The selling agent told our realtor that they had higher offers than ours, but they decided to go with us because they thought we were the perfect people for their house thanks to that letter. We were overjoyed!

Next came the contracts, the inspection, the paperwork from our lender, negotiation, the appraisal, etc. I would have to say that the amount of time it takes daily for correspondence when you have a house under contract is way more than you would think. Usually the paperwork or document needed is urgent, so it can be very stressful.

Everything came together and we had all our ducks in a row for our closing. It actually was a very smooth process and everything got done on time. We wired our money to the closing attorney for the closing, had the final walk-through, and before we knew it, closing day came. Closing took about an hour and a half and was surprisingly an enjoyable process. The sellers were really nice people, so that made it that much easier. It was a little daunting to see on the papers that we would be paying off our loan until 2046! Can you imagine? We’ll be paying off our 30 year mortgage until we’re in our 60’s- that is if we’re still living in the same house then. We plan to stay in the new house for at least 10 to 15 years. It’s big enough for us to raise a family there and is in a good school district.

We got done with the closing and were officially home owners! It was so nice to receive housewarming gifts from family and our realtor. We brought our parents over to our new house and showed them around. We also took pictures in front of the house and posted them on social media. It was so great to finally get to tell people that we bought a house!

When we got to our new house, we discovered that the sellers left us sparkling cider, candy, and a folder with all the manuals for appliances in the house as well as a six-page hand written letter describing everything we needed to know about the house. It included what was planted where, when rooms were painted and what color, when certain things were installed, etc. They even gave us restaurant recommendations and their email address in case we had questions. That was a nice surprise!

Next, we’ll have to carpet the house and epoxy the garage floor. Our house is essentially move-in ready, so we don’t have to do much to it before moving time. Luckily, we like the colors the sellers chose, so we don’t have to paint the walls. We’ve been going over the house and doing things little-by-little and plan to move into our new house in July. There’s no rush, since we don’t have to be out of my parents’ house for several more months. Now on to packing…

We’re so excited to own a home of own! With that comes a lot of responsibly and a lot of financial obligations. We’re officially adults! I can’t wait to be all moved in and settled. Here’s to owning and no longer renting!